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I'm proud to have made some acquaintances with a few amazing authors since embarking on this journey into the publishing arena. There is one in particular who has helped me in more ways than I can mention in one blog posting.
Keeping that in mind, I'm more than pleased to welcome Ms. Shelia Goss to my little space here as my First Guest Blogger.
I give you all
The Voice of Ms. She.
Six Romantic Tips from a Romance Writer
By Shelia M Goss
If the romance in your relationship has been lacking lately below are a few simple steps to add the spark back into your relationship:
1. Give your mate your undivided attention. Let the phone calls go to voice mail; turn off the TV; pull yourself away from email and the computer.
2. Schedule a date night. Whether it’s once a week or once a month, new and old couples need a night just to themselves. If you have kids, find a reliable babysitter. Do what you have to do so you and your mate can keep the flames burning. Keep in tune to what attracted you to your mate in the first place.
3. Allow your mate some “me time.” Everyone needs to spend time away from their mates—whether it’s to read, a long hot bubble bath, a trip to the spa, hanging out with friends, or just quiet time alone. Believe it or not this can help your relationship.
4. Give a card, send an email/text message or make a phone call “just because.” Don’t wait for special holidays or birthdays to show that you care. Do something every week, if not every day to let your mate know you’re thinking of them. And not out of any obligation, but because of your genuine affection towards them.
5. Share a part of yourself that you don’t share with anyone else. This helps create a special bond and should bring you closer.
6. Make a customized CD with both of your favorite songs. Don’t forget to make duplicates so you both can have a copy in your cars.
These are only a few ways you can add spark back into your relationship. Remember to take the time to REALLY get to know your mate’s likes and dislikes. Don’t be afraid to cater to their needs.
1. Give your mate your undivided attention. Let the phone calls go to voice mail; turn off the TV; pull yourself away from email and the computer.
2. Schedule a date night. Whether it’s once a week or once a month, new and old couples need a night just to themselves. If you have kids, find a reliable babysitter. Do what you have to do so you and your mate can keep the flames burning. Keep in tune to what attracted you to your mate in the first place.
3. Allow your mate some “me time.” Everyone needs to spend time away from their mates—whether it’s to read, a long hot bubble bath, a trip to the spa, hanging out with friends, or just quiet time alone. Believe it or not this can help your relationship.
4. Give a card, send an email/text message or make a phone call “just because.” Don’t wait for special holidays or birthdays to show that you care. Do something every week, if not every day to let your mate know you’re thinking of them. And not out of any obligation, but because of your genuine affection towards them.
5. Share a part of yourself that you don’t share with anyone else. This helps create a special bond and should bring you closer.
6. Make a customized CD with both of your favorite songs. Don’t forget to make duplicates so you both can have a copy in your cars.
These are only a few ways you can add spark back into your relationship. Remember to take the time to REALLY get to know your mate’s likes and dislikes. Don’t be afraid to cater to their needs.
Shelia M Goss is the national best-selling author of Hollywood Deception, My Invisible Husband, Roses are thorns, Paige’s Web, Double Platinum and His Invisible Wife and three young adult novels: The Lip Gloss Chronicles series: The Ultimate Test, Splitsville, and Paper Thin. She’s also the recipient of three Shades of Romance Magazine Readers Choice Multi-Cultural Awards and honored as a Literary Diva: The Top 100 Most Admired African American Women in Literature. To learn more, visit her website: http://www.sheliagoss.com. ;
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Shelia Goss
09:06 AM on June 11, 2010
Cornelle, thank you. I am honored to be featured on your website. Thanks for all that you do.
No thanks are in order She. I'm sure my readers will appreciate your insight and find a path to view your impressive body of literary works.
We look forward to doing this again in the near future.
Cornelle
We look forward to doing this again in the near future.
Cornelle
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Cyn
10:35 PM on June 11, 2010
I love the 'tips'...and there are several I fully intend to utilize....::grin::....you can never have too much romance in your life....thanks for the posting, Shelia. I know the rest of the ladies reading this will appreciate your ideas too.
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merry
08:16 AM on June 12, 2010
I especially love the "date night" and the "me time" tips. I think it is important to have that special alone time as a couple. And it is just as important to have alone time with oneself, especially in our hectic every day lives. I do love your tip about sending a note, what a great little idea. Think I just might try that one and very soon!
The dual CD's...very nice. There's nothing better than stirring sensations and I've found music is much like a scent...they both evoke memories that might otherwise be tucked away and forgotten. Sharing a memory even when parted...sweet. ::grins::
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